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		<title>Your Mission Statement</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2009 01:22:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A mission statement is a verbal expression of your innermost values.  It&#8217;s a living document that says THIS IS WHAT I AM, and reminds you of it, should you by chance forget&#8230;

What&#8217;s Your Mission Statement?

I am my own final authority.  All my choices and actions are based on my own logic, instinct, and feelings.

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A mission statement is a verbal expression of your innermost values.  It&#8217;s a living document that says THIS IS WHAT I AM, and reminds you of it, should you by chance forget&#8230;</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>What&#8217;s Your Mission Statement?</strong></p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="LEFT"><span style="color: #ff0000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>I am my own final authority.  All my choices and actions are based on my own logic, instinct, and feelings.</strong></span></span></p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="LEFT"><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">I will continually </span></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>challenge myself </strong></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">and expand my abilities to </span></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>meet my challenges</strong></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">.</span></span></span></p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="LEFT"><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">I will </span></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>follow my dreams</strong></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">, I will </span></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>take action on them</strong></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">, and I will </span></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>do what it takes</strong></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> to see them through.</span></span></span></p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="LEFT"><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">I will </span></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>admire</strong></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> both </span></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>excellence</strong></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> and </span></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>courage,</strong></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> in myself and others.</span></span></span></p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="LEFT"><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">I will strive to never lose my </span></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>childlike wonder</strong></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">.</span></span></span></p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="LEFT"><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">I will </span></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>accept responsibility for myself</strong></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> and my actions.  I will </span></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>step up to meet challenges</strong></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> and do what is required.</span></span></span></p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="LEFT"><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">I will take time to </span></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>Enjoy life</strong></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">, </span></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>appreciate the little things</strong></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">, and </span></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>relax</strong></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">.</span></span></span></p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="LEFT"><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">I will</span></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong> accept the present moment</strong></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">, when action is required, </span></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>I will not question myself.</strong></span></span></p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="LEFT"><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">I will strive to </span></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>be extraordinary</strong></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">, I will not settle for ordinary.</span></span></span></p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="LEFT"><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">I will </span></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>cultivate Joy, </strong></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">and </span></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>spread it wherever I go.</strong></span></span></p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="LEFT"><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">I will look at </span></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>myself as a role model,</strong></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> and accept that </span></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>every action I take will have an impact on every person I meet.</strong></span></span></p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="LEFT"><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">I will </span></span></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><strong>accept others</strong></span></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> for who they are, I will </span></span></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><strong>recognize their core.</strong></span></span></span></p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="LEFT"><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">I will treat </span></span></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><strong>every action</strong></span></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> as an </span></span></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><strong>expression of my inner core.</strong></span></span></span></p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in; font-style: normal;" align="LEFT"><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>When facing temptation, I will look to my values.</strong></span></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Why Create a Mission Statement?</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">It seems silly to verbalize your core into a written statement&#8230; after all, you can express your core better than any words can.  However, there are several benefits that come just from creating and writing a mission statement, and several more benefits that come from having a mission statement.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Benefits of Writing a Mission Statement</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">The great thing about writing a mission statement is that it provides you an opportunity to critically examine your innermost beliefs.  Are your emotions, thoughts, and conscience in sync?  Do you have any learned beliefs that are at odds with your deeper values and feelings?  Do you even know what your beliefs are?</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">The writing of the mission statement gives you a chance to examine all these questions,  and more.  It gives clarity to your direction and purpose in life, and congruency to your actions.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Benefits of Having a Mission Statement</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">The mission statement is an expression of your innermost values and desires.  When you&#8217;re at your highest state, you really don&#8217;t have to think about these values, they&#8217;re apparent in everything you do, they&#8217;re your default response.  However, the problem I have, and I think most people have, is that we&#8217;re not ALWAYS in our highest state.  We have bad days, we get inside our head, we act out inneffective scripts learned in our childhood, which aren&#8217;t congruent with our deepest values.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">And often, because we&#8217;re coming from a lower place in ourselves,  we don&#8217;t even REALIZE that we&#8217;re doing anything wrong. We feel justified in yelling at loved ones, because at that moment we feel they deserve it.  We think it&#8217;s ok to procrastinate, because we worked really hard yesterday.  We think it&#8217;s ok to lie for our own gain, because in that moment it seems there&#8217;s no other option.  We rationalize, justify, and deceive ourselves into believing our own bullshit&#8230; we simply don&#8217;t have that higher frame of reference to see the truth.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">But what if we had a stand-in for that higher frame of reference.  What if we had a set of rules that allowed us to ACT from that higher frame of reference, even if we weren&#8217;t currently seeing things from that perspective?  That&#8217;s what the mission statement does.  It&#8217;s a set of rule or guidelines for our actions, that allow us to approximate our actions and decisions when in that higher state. Furthermore, you&#8217;ll find that simply by acting in accordance with your highest values, even if initially in a lower state, you&#8217;ll be moved into that higher state.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>How do I Write a Mission Statement?</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Creating an initial rough draft of a mission statement can be completed in a matter of minutes, or may take several weeks to get to a satisfactory point&#8230; it all depends on how self aware you are.  The process of writing a mission statement is a process of self discovery, of expanding self awareness.  The first resource I&#8217;d recommend to aid you in this process is the free <a href="http://www.franklincovey.com/msb/missions/login">Covey Mission Statement Builde</a>r, it includes a number of questions and scenarios to creatively &#8220;jog your conscience&#8221;, getting to your deepest values by asking questions which force you to consider them.  It&#8217;s a great tool to come up with a very rough idea of where you&#8217;re headed with your mission statement.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Next, I&#8217;d recommend  take some aptitude and personality tests, to get a better idea of your natural strengths and weaknesses.  These include tests such as the Myer-Briggs Personality Test, the<a href="http://rcm.amazon.com/e/cm?lt1=_blank&amp;bc1=000000&amp;IS2=1&amp;bg1=FFFFFF&amp;fc1=000000&amp;lc1=0000FF&amp;t=makingconnec-20&amp;o=1&amp;p=8&amp;l=as1&amp;m=amazon&amp;f=ifr&amp;md=10FE9736YVPPT7A0FBG2&amp;asins=159562015X"> Strengthsfinder 2.0 Test</a>, or the FIRO B Relational Assesment (free online test code available in <a href="http://rcm.amazon.com/e/cm?lt1=_blank&amp;bc1=000000&amp;IS2=1&amp;bg1=FFFFFF&amp;fc1=000000&amp;lc1=0000FF&amp;t=makingconnec-20&amp;o=1&amp;p=8&amp;l=as1&amp;m=amazon&amp;f=ifr&amp;md=10FE9736YVPPT7A0FBG2&amp;asins=0060742518">This Book</a>).  It can also be helpful to talk to friends and family about their assessment of your strengths and weaknesses&#8230; but don&#8217;t ask if you can&#8217;t take honest answers.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">It may also be helpful to look at books centered around career placement or finding your purpose&#8230; I haven&#8217;t gotten a chance to look at any of these so I can&#8217;t make any recommendations (but let me know in the comments if you have any suggestions!).It can also help to take a look at your own choices and decisions, and ask yourself WHY you made these decisions.  Often deeper values can be at play.  Look especially at those decisions you made when you&#8217;re in that &#8220;highest state&#8221; mentioned earlier.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Note that your mission statement does not have to be constructed like mine is.  It can be a paragraph like this mission statement, a list of foundational values like <a href="http://www.franklincovey.com/msb/inspired/franklin">Ben Franklin&#8217;s mission statement</a>, a song or poem, or anything else.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">The mission statement is not something that you ever finish writing.  It&#8217;s a constant process of finding better ways to express your values, as well as updating as you get more life experience and your values change.  It&#8217;s a living document that changes as you do.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>What Now?</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Creating a mission statement is one of the biggest things you can do to enhance your personal effectiveness on a macro level.  If you don&#8217;t have one, creating one should be among your top priorities.  I&#8217;ve given you the tools and know how to write one of your own, so go do it! Then, set a <a href="http://lifeofmatt.net/blog/2009/09/your-daily-renewal/">Daily Renewal Habit </a>to read over it every morning</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Once you&#8217;ve written it, go ahead and post it in the comments, I&#8217;ll be really interested to see what you guys (and gals) come up with.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Cheers,</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Matt</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 01:13:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Am I okay with what I&#8217;m doing right now?
Do I feel good about the consequences of what I&#8217;m doing?
Is there something else I could be doing that I&#8217;d feel better about?
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<p><strong>Do I feel good about the consequences of what I&#8217;m doing?</strong></p>
<p><strong>Is there something else I could be doing that I&#8217;d feel better about?</strong></p>
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		<title>Being in the Moment Without all the Bullshit</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2009 20:09:45 +0000</pubDate>
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With the recent Eckhart Tolle craze, being in the moment, or &#8220;flow&#8221;, has become somewhat of a fad.  Scientific, spiritual, and self improvement ideas are all being bandied about, resulting in loads of bullshit.
If you&#8217;ve ever experienced flow, you&#8217;ll know that it is very real, and an amazing experience. But it&#8217;s hard to separate the [...]]]></description>
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<p>With the recent Eckhart Tolle craze, being in the moment, or &#8220;flow&#8221;, has become somewhat of a fad.  Scientific, spiritual, and self improvement ideas are all being bandied about, resulting in loads of bullshit.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;ve ever experienced flow, you&#8217;ll know that it is very real, and an amazing experience. But it&#8217;s hard to separate the theory from the technique, the useful from the bullshit.  This article is going to change all that.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>The Three Stages to Getting Into The Moment</strong></p>
<p>Based on everything I&#8217;ve read, and all my experience, I&#8217;ve managed to break down the whole &#8220;in the moment&#8221; thing into three discreet stages.  Any of the three stages simply by themselves can be enough to push you into the moment,  but when all three are combined, the state is all but inevitable.  The stages break down as follows:</p>
<p><strong>1.Empty Your Head</strong></p>
<p><strong>2.Engage Your Action Mind</strong></p>
<p><strong>3. Narrow Your Focus</strong></p>
<p>Now I&#8217;ll go into more depth, giving specific techniques to aid you in each stage of the process.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Stage 1: Empty Your Head</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Thoughts are poison to being in the moment.  The first stage if you want to be in the moment is to get rid of all those persistent, recurring thoughts that seem to occupy a large portion of your psyche.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3222/2660608533_6584c4bd1b.jpg?v=0" alt="" width="500" height="333" /></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">There are three techinques I have found to work for this:</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Have a conversation</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Ever had a thought that just seemed to weigh down on you, an invisible burden?  Ever had a conversation which seemed to remove that burden?  I&#8217;ve found that if I can make a habit of talking out any such overburdening thoughts, it makes it exponentially easier to get into the moment.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Make a Decision</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">One common type of recurring thought is an indecision.  The solution is simple, though not easy: Make the Decision.  I may write a post about making decisions in the future; just  know this is a key part of living in the moment.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">For now, if you&#8217;re chronically indecisive, you&#8217;ll want to check it this awesome post by Steve Pavlina on <a href="http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2007/07/how-to-make-smart-decisions-in-less-than-60-seconds/">How to Make a Smart Decision in Less Than 60 Seconds.</a></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Make a List</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Another stubborn thought type is the self-reminder.  A self-reminder is that voice that tells you to get new AA batteries at the oddest times, or that nagging feeling that you were supposed to do <em>something</em> for <em>someone,</em> or even that exciting idea that you can&#8217;t stop thinking about.  Your brain is trying to help, by keeping them in your mind so you won&#8217;t forget them.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">The solution is to take the burden from your brain, and transfer it to a list.  There are all sorts of self-reminders that are better handled by lists.  Some of my personal favorites include:</p>
<ul>
<li>Errands list</li>
<li>Books to buy list (via amazon wishlist)</li>
<li>Things I might want to do at some point list</li>
<li>Blog post ideas list</li>
</ul>
<p>Integrity in reviewing and updating the lists is vital.  When the list becomes incomplete, it no longer functions as a psychological saftey net.  If you&#8217;re like me, and you&#8217;re allergic to pen and paper, you can check out mashables <a href="http://mashable.com/2008/11/20/list-management/">40 great resources for making lists.</a></p>
<p>When you start the habit of making lists and reviewing them,  your brain chatter will drop dramatically.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Stage 2: Engage Your Action Mind</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">With the long term thoughts out of the way, the next step is to rid your mind of the more short term chatter.  This includes worrying, labeling, second guessing, and all other forms of self talk.    In the previous step, I focused on long terms solutions, eliminating thoughts at their source.  However, the source of short term thoughts are much more complicated, and involve talks on judging, pain bodies, self-deception, or other complicated ideas.</p>
<p style="text-align: center; "><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2186/2174064387_3d2e663b97.jpg?v=0" alt="" width="500" height="333" /></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">I promised to keep this article actionable and bullshit free, so I&#8217;ll sidestep the issue of dealing with the root of the thinking, and instead focus on how to engage your <a href="http://lifeofmatt.net/blog/2008/12/change-your-life-now-two-skills-you-can-implement-right-now-to-change-the-quality-of-your-life/">short term/action mind</a>.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Engage in Free Flow</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Free flow is an exercise that mimics the actions of the instinctual mind.  It is my favorite technique  in this article.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Free flow has two simple rules:</p>
<ol>
<li>If you think about doing something, do it immediately.</li>
<li>If you any other thought, say it out loud immediately.</li>
</ol>
<p>This exercise can be less awkward with company, as you don&#8217;t have to talk to yourself, but it will work regardless.  The trick to this exercise is momentum.  If you can do one action, the next will be easier.  Likewise, if you censor or second guess even one time, you&#8217;ll do it again.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, this exercise doesn&#8217;t seem to work for those people who think using pictures instead of words.  If any visual thinkers out there have a parralel technique they use, please let me know in the comments.</p>
<p><strong>Exercise</strong></p>
<p>Smart evolutionary programming means that rigorous physical activity will engage our instinctual mind.  If you don&#8217;t have time for a full workout, try any sort of quick powerful movements, such as jumping jacks or pushups.</p>
<p><strong>Shock Your System</strong></p>
<p>This method is about doing something so unexpected that two things happen:</p>
<ol>
<li>Your instinctual mind gets engaged to deal with &#8220;danger&#8221;.</li>
<li>Your mind stops thinking because it literally doesn&#8217;t know what to think.</li>
</ol>
<p>Much of the Zen tradition is based around this method,  with zen masters using deliberate illogicality to &#8220;wake up&#8221; their students.  In the NLP world, this is known as a &#8220;Pattern Interupt&#8221;. Some other good examples include:</p>
<ul>
<li>Taking a cold shower</li>
<li>Breaking the quiet with a loud noise</li>
<li>Making animal noises in the center of a crowded room</li>
<li><a href="http://ivanperezs.wordpress.com/2009/03/13/the-bizarreness/">The Bizareness</a></li>
</ul>
<p><strong>Use Triggers</strong></p>
<p>This is a Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy Concept.  In NLP, it&#8217;s known as &#8220;anchoring&#8221;, and Frued liked to talk about it as well.  Triggers are specific stimuli that bring you into a certain state (in this case, an action state).  To figure these out, it can be useful to keep a log for a little bit of when you get into this action state, and what happened immediately prior to it&#8230; oftentimes you&#8217;ll find that these triggers are actually examples of exercise or shocking your system, but sometimes you&#8217;ll find a unique trigger.  Some of my favorites include:</p>
<ul>
<li>Listening to &#8220;Wall of Sound&#8221; type music such as Bruce Springsteens Born To Run or Energetic Punk Music</li>
<li>Getting dressed in my exercise clothes<img class="alignnone" src="http://l.yimg.com/g/images/spaceball.gif" alt="" width="1" height="1" />.</li>
<li>Sunlight.</li>
</ul>
<p style="text-align: center; "><strong>Stage Three: Narrow Your Focus</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left; ">This step is the hardest for me.  Getting into go mode for me is easy, but taming and focusing it is a whole nother matter.  It&#8217;s been translated to english variously as &#8220;relaxed alertness&#8221; and &#8220;controlled spontaneity&#8221;.  It&#8217;s devoting every fiber of your being to one thing, and basking in the sheer joy that comes from that.  Eckhart Tolle calls this &#8220;Rising Above Thought&#8221;, instead of falling below (the previous step).</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter" src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/150/384527640_a2859416f2_m.jpg" alt="" width="240" height="159" /></p>
<p style="text-align: left; ">I&#8217;ve found that for things which I&#8217;m very passionate about, this is not a problem at all&#8230; it&#8217;s almost an afterthought of the first two steps.  However, for most things, it takes some effort to focus in.  I&#8217;ve found four techniques for this.  The first two deal with eliminating other things that may widen your focus, the second two with directing and controlling your focus.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Minimize Distractions </strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">One of the big things you can do to help narrow your focus is to minimize other distractions.  This meanns things that could interrupt you and throw you out of your flow state.  Some of my favorite ways to minimize distractions:</p>
<ul>
<li>Turn of the cellphone, unplug the phone, and close outlook.</li>
<li>Setting &#8220;do not disturb&#8221; times with my family.</li>
<li>Keeping my workspace uncluttered and functional</li>
<li>Closing every application on the computer except what I currently need.</li>
</ul>
<p>For more on minimizing distractions, check out the Zen Habits post on <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/09/simple-living-manifesto-72-ideas-to-simplify-your-life/">72 ways to simplify your life.</a></p>
<p><strong>Unschedule</strong></p>
<p>This is a method for those of you who tend to get sidetracked when trying to focus, and pulled into other activities like watching TV, surfing the internet, or talking to friends.  Credit goes to Neil Fiore, although I haven&#8217;t actually read his book yet (it&#8217;s on the way).</p>
<p>The idea here is to plan all those seemingly unimportant tasks first.  For instance, I&#8217;m scheduled from 6 &#8211; 7 oclock today to veg out and watch tv&#8230; this gets just as much weight as a doctors appointment.  The psychology behind this method is similar to that of making lists&#8230; your brain knows that the activities have a time and place, so it doesn&#8217;t need to think about them until then.</p>
<p>This technique is also very effective when applied on the micro scale.  For instance,<a href="http://www.43folders.com/2005/10/11/procrastination-hack-1025"> Merlin Mann&#8217;s &#8216;(10+2) * 5&#8242; Hack.</a></p>
<p>Just as with lists, your integrity with keeping to your unschedules is very important.  The moment you don&#8217;t honor an unschedule (even if you&#8217;re on a role and you don&#8217;t feel like taking a break), they lose their power.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Relax</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">A relaxed state can go a long way towards narrowing a scattered focus.  My favorite relaxation technique involves taking a series of deep breaths, each time focusing on a different muscle to relax as I exhale.  There are several other good relaxation techniques, but all share four common traits(credit Jame s Prochaska):</p>
<ul>
<li>A Comfortable Position</li>
<li>A quiet environment</li>
<li>an internal focus</li>
<li>a &#8220;letting go&#8221;</li>
</ul>
<p>If you can get those four things, the specific technique you use is inconsequential.</p>
<p><strong>Meditate</strong></p>
<p>There are many types of meditation.  The thing that they all share in common is the concept of single focus, the practice of focusing on one thing at the exclusion of all else.  What&#8217;s great about meditation is that if performed regularly, it acts as a form of deliberate practice for the skill of narrowing your focus.  By performing meditation in a controlled relaxed environment like mentioned above, it increases your ability to single focus when there are other distractions present.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve unfortunatley been out of the habit of meditation for a while, so I asked some of my friends and readers what techniques worked best for them.  The most universally recommended technique seemed to be mindful breathing.  This is the practice of taking deep breaths, in a controlled manner, single focusing on only the breathing and the sensations it produces.</p>
<p>Meditating regularly is perhaps the biggest thing you can do to enhance your ability to narrow your focus.  For a more comprehensive treatment of meditaiton, you can check out Pick the Brains article: <span style="color: #000000; text-decoration: none;"><a href="http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/4-reasons-you-should-meditate-and-how-to-get-started/">4 Reasons You Should Meditate, and How to Get Started.</a></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>What Works For You?</strong></p>
<p>The process I&#8217;ve outlined above is something that works.  The patterns and techinques  I&#8217;ve given you here for each stage are things you can implement immediately, to have a clearer, more action oriented, more focused mind.  And to do it without wading through piles of bullshit.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="alignnone" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3081/2599023186_50e6f7fc09.jpg?v=0" alt="" width="375" height="300" /></p>
<p>But these are just things that have worked for me.  I&#8217;d be very interested to hear what techniques have worked for you, the reader.  Drop a comment and let me know.</p>
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<p>&#8220;<em>Do you know what&#8217;s the difference between me and you? You practice gymnastics, I practice everything!</em>&#8221; Socrates, Peaceful Warrior (2006)</p>
<p>My whole life, or at least as long as I remember, I&#8217;ve always had this obsession with improving and being better. Mix that with being raised as the kid that everyone considered  &#8221;the most intelligent&#8221; for many years and with my huge curiosity and you can understand why I do what I do. There you have positive social conditioning at its best, but that&#8217;s for another blog.</p>
<p>I think one day I tasted the power of deciding to overcome some challenge and improve, focusing on it and getting it, and it became my drug &#8211; that, and chocolate <img src='http://lifeofmatt.net/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> . That&#8217;s the reason why as a kid I was reading lots of pages a day, why I started doing wushu when I was five, why I&#8217;ve always had such good marks, why I got into hunting, why I went from chode to the cool guy, why I started this blog, why I got into a lot of stuff (Meditation, Self-Help, Uncluttering, Organizing&#8230;), why I plan such big things for my life and, most importantly, why I live everyday as the first and the last day of my life.</p>
<p>Life as a journey of challenges is one of my core values, its just part of me. That way, I know no matter what I want to do, if there&#8217;s only a tiny possibility of accomplishing it &#8211; even if it seems impossible &#8211; I will do it. Because, like they say: <strong><a id="qe43" title="In the way you do anything, you do everything." href="http://www.johnnyfeelgood.tv/?p=59" target="_blank">In the way you do anything, you do everything.</a></strong> </p>
<p>In this beautiful day, with this beautiful background music, I&#8217;m here to inspire you. Yeah, surprise&#8230; I want you to live a memorable life, a life capable of inspiring people. Only those individual that love themselves enough will start their new life. This is a life of excellence, of continual improvement and expansion, this is a life of mastery and the mastery of life. Because mastery is a lifelong process, the more you live, the longer mastery will take you. Mastery is about neither starting nor stopping, but about doing. </p>
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<h2 style="text-align: center;">Yeah, that would be cool, but how do I get there?</h2>
<div>As anyone who&#8217;s into self-improvement knows, the mindset you have (what you believe, what you value, what you favor) is going to influence your actions in a way that most people wouldn&#8217;t believe. Now I&#8217;m going to give you things that help me get to that mindset, and stay there. I&#8217;m sure you have some more, so comment.</div>
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<p> </p>
<p>Some pointers that will, hopefully, lead you to this mindset. At least that is what I intend to do with this article:</p>
<p><strong>It&#8217;s about the journey, not the destination.</strong><br />
Why? Because if you choose to live this way there&#8217;s no destination. Deadlines are only mental concepts. Don&#8217;t get me wrong, it&#8217;s good to have goals (that&#8217;s the whole point of this post). The journey, this moment, is everything you have make it fun. Improving rather than the improvement, taking action rather than getting the goal.</p>
<p><strong>Focusing on something and making it a reality is beautiful.</strong><br />
If that&#8217;s not art, then what is? Focus on what you want, not on what you don&#8217;t want.<br />
<em>“The mind is everything. What you think you become.”</em> Buddha</p>
<p><strong>By changing the world we are confirming our condition as humans.</strong><br />
We people have the great gift of being the only creatures on Earth that are capable of changing their surroundings. Use that gift with responsibility.</p>
<p><strong>Your real power lies in your use of responsiblity.</strong><br />
Your responsibility for what happens, your will. It&#8217;s the only thing that will never be taken away from you.</p>
<p><strong>You don&#8217;t know when you are going to die.<br />
</strong><br />
<strong><a id="cr6z" title="The passion of life" href="http://ivanperezs.wordpress.com/2009/03/06/the-passion-of-life/" target="_blank">The passion of life.</a></strong></p>
<p><strong>In improvement, there&#8217;s abundance; from stagnation you can only get scarcity. Let go.</strong></p>
<p><strong>There are heros outside comics and films.</strong><br />
<a id="nm2h" title="There are real life heros, and you can be one of them." href="http://naturaltim.com/?p=83" target="_blank">There are real life heros, and you can be one of them.</a></p>
<p><strong>Here are some questions you may ask yourself in order to reveal that place inside your self that is centered, your CORE (if you want to get the most out of this, write the answers down):</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><strong>If I was going to die in X what would I do?</strong> Think of short periods of time: one year, 6 months, 10 weeks, 3 days, 20 minutes&#8230;</li>
<li><strong>What do I really want for myself?</strong></li>
<li><strong>Am I happy or I just think I should feel happy?</strong></li>
<li><strong>What excites me?</strong></li>
<li><strong>What is my dream?</strong></li>
</ul>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Conclusion</strong></h2>
<p>This is a life of continual centeredness responsibility, inspiration and leadership. And this, my friends, is the best way I can explain what being alpha and being a man is. It&#8217;s not about improving, it&#8217;s about going for the improvement. It&#8217;s not about the results, it&#8217;s about living on the edge.</p>
<p>Some people live like this everyday, they feel something when they wake up that tells them today is going to be the best day of their lives, and that is every day. It&#8217;s the feeling of centeredness and not noticing people&#8217;s bullshit that arises from feeling that you could die the next second. Conciously experiencing every second is just natural from this mindset.</p>
<p>Life has no meaning, you have to give it a meaning. You&#8217;ve earned your respect and trust, you just love yourself. I would rather die than living any other way.</p></div>
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		<title>Creative Expression: The Forgotten Skill</title>
		<link>http://lifeofmatt.net/blog/2009/02/creative-expression-the-forgotten-skill/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Feb 2009 02:02:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Matt</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Creative Expression is IMO a sorely underdiscussed topic in both the self-help and seduction communities.  Creative expression can roughly be described as anything that is not direct communication which conveys who you are.   In the video, I give some basic principles and steps to take when learning to creatively express yourself through a new [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Creative Expression is IMO a sorely underdiscussed topic in both the self-help and seduction communities.  Creative expression can roughly be described as anything that is not direct communication which conveys who you are.   In the video, I give some basic principles and steps to take when learning to creatively express yourself through a new medium, as well as examples.   Below, I&#8217;ll give a quick outline for those of you who like reading more than watching.  I understand that the video is sucky&#8230; I&#8217;m still new at this vlogging stuff <img src='http://lifeofmatt.net/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> .
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<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">1.Start With First Principles</span></div>
<div>Start with those most basic rules which have been developed for your medium, which apply to everyone who is a master&#8230; you must work WITHIN those principles to express yourself.</div>
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<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">2.Find a Role Model that You Connect With</span></div>
<div>Once you have found the first principles, the next step is to find a role model who&#8217;s style of expression resonates with you.  Straight out imitation is okay at this point, as you&#8217;ll become more unique as you go through the next stages.</div>
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<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">3. Find Moments of Brilliance</span></div>
<div>The next step is to take the baseline style that you have created, and look for places where you go ABOVE your current level.  Artwork that you think is better than anything you&#8217;ve done, clothes that you like more than anything else in your wardrobe, etc.  Extract personal principles of expression from these, and apply it to new pieces of art, new clothes, etc.</div>
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<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">4.Increase Detail</span></div>
<div>Now, you use the same three techniques above but with increased detail. Instead of just the basics, you&#8217;re starting to layer things together in ways that are uniquely you.</div>
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<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">5. Add Flair</span></div>
<div>Now you add the finishing touches.  Those tiny little details that tie everything else together.  At this point, your expression should be completely unique.</div>
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<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">6. Upgrade</span></div>
<div>Now it&#8217;s time to start at the beginning again.  Look at your original baseline for even deeper moments of brilliance. Then do the same thing for detail, then for flair.  Remember not to skip anything here&#8230; you don&#8217;t want to upgrade your flair, only to find that it doesn&#8217;t fit with your upgraded baseline.</div>
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		<title>On&#8230; those &#8220;Off days&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jan 2009 19:26:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Matt</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So, you&#8217;re having one of those &#8220;off days&#8221;.  Maybe you didn&#8217;t get enough sleep.  Maybe somebody said something and it brought up old insecurities.  Maybe you just woke up on the wrong side of the bed.  Whatever the case, you find yourself slipping back into old emotions and thought patterns, not being able to make [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So, you&#8217;re having one of those &#8220;off days&#8221;.  Maybe you didn&#8217;t get enough sleep.  Maybe somebody said something and it brought up old insecurities.  Maybe you just woke up on the wrong side of the bed.  Whatever the case, you find yourself slipping back into old emotions and thought patterns, not being able to make eye contact, being clumsy and meek again, instead of the assured confident person you have worked so hard to become.
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<div>And you&#8217;re killing yourself over it.  You hate it.  You struggle harder and harder to pull yourself out of the slump.  You fix your body language, you try to make some clever comments in the conversation like you normally do.  But it all just comes out forced and awkward, plunging you further into your own despair.  You try to explain why you&#8217;re not your usual self, but you know it&#8217;s not really an excuse.  The harder you try, the more awkward it becomes, and finally you&#8217;re left sitting silently, or going to the bathroom to splash cold water on your face, or going somewhere to get a moment to yourself.</div>
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<div>And still, you&#8217;re killing yourself.  What the fuck is wrong with you? What the fuck happened? </div>
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<div>At least, that&#8217;s how it is for me.  I used to hate days like this, despised myself for becoming so weak again when I knew I could be stronger.  And after dozens of these days, at various points in my own growth process, I&#8217;ve come to a singular conclusion: <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;"></span></div>
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<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">It Doesn&#8217;t Matter.</span></div>
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<div>Read it again, in case you missed it the first time.</div>
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<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">It Doesn&#8217;t Matter.</span></div>
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<div>It&#8217;s not a big deal, really.  It&#8217;s not going to ruin your life, it&#8217;s not going to kill you.  I used to worry about people seeing this side of me, about how their perceptions  of me would change, of what they&#8217;d think.</div>
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<div>Then I realized something.</div>
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<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">Noone Knows.</span></div>
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<div>No one knows that there are insecure thoughts in my head.  No one notices every slight mistake I make, every little tremble in my voice.  I was putting myself deeper into insecure thoughts for nothing.  Very few people even noticed that there was any change.</div>
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<div>There were a few tho.  A few observant ones, who would see that someone was different about me.  That I was a little less confident than I normally was&#8230; but nothing happened.  The next day, or the next week, when I was back to my normal self, there was no change, no big shift now that they had seen another side of me.  Nothing.  And I realized my second big epiphany.</div>
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<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">Noone Cares.</span></div>
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<div>All these big consequences that I had been dreaming in my head were fantasy.  Everybody has an off day sometimes, and it&#8217;s not a big deal, taken with all the positive impressions of you they have to the few off days.  People notice, then shrug it off.</div>
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<div>And finally, there were some people who both noticed and cared.  They would worry about me, ask what was wrong, ask if it was something they did.  The people who cared that I wasn&#8217;t my usual self, cared because they cared about ME.  These were the people who were the closest to me, and for these people:</div>
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<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">It Doesn&#8217;t Matter.</span></div>
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<div>One off day is not going to change their feelings for you.  These are the people who will stick with you through thick and thin, one little off day isn&#8217;t going to change a thing.</div>
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<div>I finally realized that by making these off days such a big deal, all I was doing was giving them power they didn&#8217;t deserve. By constantly self monitoring myself, and fighting against myself, I was just making things worse.  What started out as a molehill only became a mountain because I piled the dirt myself.  </div>
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<div>When a day like this strikes me now, I don&#8217;t worry about it.  I accept it, I understand that things will be a bit different today.  Sometimes, if I find myself dwelling on it too much, constantly monitoring myself, I&#8217;ll try to get in a little exercise.  Do a few jumping jacks, wave my arms, go for a run.  Anything to get myself out of my head.   </div>
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<div>Sometimes, you&#8217;ll find that what you thought was an off day was merely an opportunity to express a differet side of your personality.  Maybe you&#8217;ll be a cool, laid back guy because you have less energy.  Maybe you&#8217;ll be a crazy wacky guy because your thought patterns all over the place.  But by not fighting it, it becomes merely another form of expression.</div>
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<div>Other times, you&#8217;ll find the weird feeling will go away completely, and you&#8217;ll be your normal self in no time.</div>
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<div>Still other times, neither of these things will happen.  you&#8217;ll be that slightly more awkward persona you used to dread so much.  But now you know the truth: It Doesn&#8217;t Matter.  and in realizing this truth, you&#8217;ll find the problem won&#8217;t be nearly as bad as it had been in the past&#8230; a small speedbump, and nothing more.</div>
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<div>At the end of the day, instead of beating yourself up, you can look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself the only question that really matters at this point: What can I learn from this?</div>
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<div>And the next day, when you wake up refreshed, confident, and alert, you can back to what you do best, knowing with utter certainty that you can handle yourself even at your worst&#8230; anything else is easy.</div>
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		<title>Be Yourself</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Oct 2008 03:42:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Matt</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Think. Less.Do.  More.
Don&#8217;t Do Anything&#8230; You wouldn&#8217;t do.
Voice. your thoughts.
-Act now.
Be. your body.Know. your mind.
Conscience.
Understand. Perception.
-Act now.
Presence.Action.
Principle.
Truth.
-Act Now.
Be. Yourself.Be Yourself.
Be Yourself&#8230;
Be&#8230; Yourself.
-Act Now.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Think. Less.<br />Do.  More.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t Do Anything&#8230; You wouldn&#8217;t do.</p>
<p>Voice. your thoughts.</p>
<p>-Act now.</p>
<p>Be. your body.<br />Know. your mind.</p>
<p>Conscience.</p>
<p>Understand. Perception.</p>
<h1>-Act now.</h1>
<p>Presence.<br />Action.</p>
<p>Principle.</p>
<p>Truth.</p>
<h2>-Act Now.</h2>
<p>Be. Yourself.<br />Be Yourself.</p>
<p>Be Yourself&#8230;</p>
<p>Be&#8230; Yourself.</p>
<p>-Act Now.</p>
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